Love to regret, But don't regret to love.

Isn't weird that when you're with someone and things seem so amazing, then somehow they leave; whether it be through death or choice or being forced, it tears you to pieces. All you think about is that one thing or person that made your days seem worthwhile, made the sun seem just that much brighter. But it's gone and all that you can see is dark and full of despair. Then one day you find someone else and all of a sudden that thing, that memory that seems so far gone, is simply forgotten. We do it all the time. We spend months with someone just to have it thrown away in the blink of an eye. Some take months to get over it and when they do all of sudden there's that new person. They forget all their regrets and move on. They simply "get over it" and "let it go". It's just odd to me that they can someone how just forget and let go. Every bad memory is burnt into my memory when the good memories fade. Sometimes I lie in bed and just think about all the things I could have done differently. People are always telling me I can't let regrets control my life and I completely agree, but without my regrets I don't learn anything from mistakes I make. So in the long wrong I guess not forgetting may be jsut as bad as forgetting...